Dating an aloof person
All seems to be well except she does not seem to be warming up much. She says she likes to be held but her body language says otherwise. She has never done anything in return despite the fact she proclaims herself to be very sexual (I believe this after seeing her box of toys and handcuffs that she proudly showed me).After a month, I start to feel affection for a partner and want to do things like put my arm around her, hold her hand..only when it feels natural. I'm not one of those guys who thinks "well I gotta get mine!
And if you tried to say something to ease the situation, their response (though not exactly inappropriate) pretty much nullified your efforts.
I literally can’t help myself but to go over and snuggle him when he gets like this. It is far less adorable when my charming, intelligent husband utilizes this strategy.
When Erich becomes aloof he withdraws from a conversation by becoming vague, unclear or quiet.
The person might wonder, just who One moment, I'll be affectionate, totally paying attention to you. Sending mixed signals is a timeless tactic employed by both genders.
Not only does it create a riddle for the other person to solve, but giving little tastes of good vibes, mixed with a confusing vibe intrigues people.