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And it safeguards couples from pushing physical boundaries they may regret later. Don’t wake it up until it’s ready.” Although most singles desire for love to be awakened, based on this verse we shouldn't awaken love (or rush through dating relationships) because there is such a thing as “being ready.” In other words, there’s a "right time" for love.
I love what the New International Reader’s Version says in Song of Solomon 2:7: “Women of Jerusalem, make me a promise. So, if we agree that there is a right (and a wrong) time to awaken love and that taking it slowly is a good thing, then I propose that going slowly involves more than a simple application of physical and emotional boundaries to a dating relationship.
But then when the pressure is on, we don’t really know what the fuck that really means. Do we need to revert to using the baseball analogy?
By the time I’m half undressed I have a hard time expressing exactly what I want and how.
While there’s nothing more fun and exciting than starting a new romance, there’s a lot to be said for slowing things down and letting them develop naturally instead of being in such a rush. Getting carried away might blind you to some glaring red flags.
First, it gives each person in the relationship room to breathe and to enjoy dating without the pressure of getting too serious too quickly.
It also protects the heart as individuals gauge whether they are good for each other.
Oikle’s tips for keeping emotions in check so that the relationship can grow– on both sides.
Do not jump in with your whole heart- get to know the person so you don’t fall in love with the idea of him, but the actual person and what he is offering you (not what you hope or wish he’ll offer you.) Avoid thinking about him all of the time, which creates a habit of preoccupation which can lead to obsession- which definitely isn’t based on who he is- but the idea of him, and will make moving on more difficult to do.